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Happiness Tip 35
Vivienne Barnes, Happiness Coach
Waterfall photo by Andrei Niemimaki
welcome to week 35 of my tips.

This week I want to focus upon that horrid, sometimes unhappy feeling we may get when we feel we are not being understood by another, most especially woman to man or man to woman.

Ladies, be aware of how we as women tend to 'edit' as we speak..and how irritating that can be for a man listening to you, and I am as guilty as the next by the way!..and sometimes the male of the species can be saying stuff like 'get to the point'..sound familiar?..if you have something really important to say I suggest you focus on precisely what you want to say and what you want to achieve

Gentlemen, be aware that women have this tendency! I know men tend to simply 'just say it' and that is fine, of course it is. This is simply a heads up that in my opinion men and women communicate differently.

Neither way is right or wrong, we are simply different. Women are not indecisive, they are simply sharing their thoughts towards the decision. Men are not insensitive, they have simply done their thinking quietly!

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Happiness Tip 35, 8th November 2017, 9:32 AM