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Happiness Tip 62
Vivienne Barnes, Happiness Coach
Waterfall 2 photo by E Photos
Welcome to week 62

...for those of you that have followed me since I began this, over a year ago, you will have noted that some of my Tips are quite simple..and some are deep and thought provoking..

..this week's is thought provoking..I think

..there is a concept known as 'Frame of Reference'..this means the 'Set of criteria or stated values in relation to which measurements or judgments can be made'...we ALL have a Set of Criteria ..

..I am suggesting that the next time you make a judgment about anything have a ponder on how you came to your conclusion..was it evidence based?..was it instinct?..and if of course your 'comments or judgments' have never got you in an argument or more, then obviously you are fine!..but if on the other hand you find yourself getting in tangles with others, or even with yourself, perhaps think where and on what basis your judgments are made..

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Happiness Tip 62, 16th May 2018, 13:55 PM