Five Ways To Save Your Marriage

According to ONS, 2022 saw the lowest number of divorces since 1971, which was also a 30% decrease on divorces since 2021.

This sits hand-in-hand with the introduction of no-fault divorces in 2022, which shifts away from the approach where someone had to be blamed for a divorce.

Amy Cranfield, Family Law Solicitor from Howells Solicitors, discusses five proven tips on how to save your marriage, before it gets to the point of divorce:

1, Consistent Communication

Communication is essential for saving a marriage because it fosters understanding, trust, and emotional connection between partners.

It prevents misunderstandings as it helps clarify intentions and expectations. If you don’t communicate consistently, partners may misinterpret each other's actions or words, leading to unnecessary conflicts.

Especially over time as individual goals change, it is important to ensure your partner is aware of these aspirations, making it easier to work together towards a shared future.

2. Commit to Spending Time with Each Other

It's easy to fall into routine and overlook quality time with your partner.

Prioritising this time strengthens your emotional bond, fosters intimacy, and reinforces your partnership.

Sharing experiences outside daily life renews the connection that brought you together. Additionally, spending quality time helps reduce the stress of married life, allowing you to unwind and remember the joy you bring to each other.

3. Cooperating and Compromising

Every couple encounters some disagreements, but the ability to cooperate and compromise determines how well these conflicts are resolved.

Marriage is a partnership that requires working as a team and being willing to meet halfway. By doing so, you can show respect you have for one another which can help resolve disputes without any underlying grudges, which is very important for maintaining a healthy and balanced relationship.

4. Acknowledgement of partners goals

Acknowledging your partner's goals shows that you can recognise and respect their individuality. The act validates their personal aspirations and reinforces the idea that their dreams and ambitions are important, which is essential for maintaining their sense of self within the relationship.

Additionally, when you show genuine interest in your partner’s goals, it strengthens your emotional bond. Understanding what is a core drive of your partner's life and supporting their ambitions helps build a closer connection as you care about their happiness and fulfilment.

5. Try Counselling

If your marriage feels like it's nearing an end but you're willing to work together to save it, consider marriage counselling.

It provides a structured, supportive space to address and resolve issues. A skilled counsellor can help identify underlying problems, guide conflict resolution, and rebuild trust, fostering a stronger, healthier relationship.