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Happiness Tip 59
Vivienne Barnes, Happiness Coach
The Strid photo by alh1
Welcome to week 59

..there is a concept known within psychotherapy/counselling as 'locus of evaluation'..in essence the issues are as follows:

1) do you find yourself always pleasing others?..or thinking that you have a need to always please others?

2) do you have difficulty saying 'No'?

..if so I suggest that you consider why

..you see if this way of being serves you that is fine...but if you end up feeling you are not able to be your true self...then think on and take action..because you see these ways of being can result in deep unhappiness...

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Happiness Tip 59, 25th April 2018, 9:59 AM